Weekly Motivation

Implied Goals vs Your Goals

by John Barban

Health and fitness marketing is designed around a set of implied goals such as: muscle building, weight loss, enhanced performance, a heightened feeling of well being.

These are the generic goals that most marketers assume you’re interested in but nobody can choose your goals for you.

Your goals have to be a personal choice. Once you’ve stated your personal goals clearly it becomes much easier to take action on them and avoid distractions that don’t bring you closer to your goal.

If you don’t state a clear goal you can end up with dozens of unfinished projects, lots of money wasted on programs, supplements, food and books. And worst of all you can end up discouraged and thinking that your a failure.

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An Active Approach to Managing Menopause

Get Moving to Relieve Discomfort

— By Rebecca Pratt, Staff Writer

You’ve heard the jokes and the horror stories. But often, faced with the onset of menopause, most of us don’t know whether to laugh or cry. Luckily, if you’re determined to stay fit—or get fit— there’s no time like perimenopause to begin a sensible physical regimen.

Physical activity, the most effective alternative therapy available for women who experience menopausal symptoms, allows women to manage both their bodies and emotions. When you exercise, your adrenal glands are stimulated to convert the male hormone androstenedione into estrogen. Just four 30-minute exercise sessions per week are enough to keep you “topped off” with estrogen.

Regular exercise can benefit you in a number of ways as you pass through menopause: strengthening your heart and bones, avoiding or minimizing weight gain, improving your mood and sense of overall well-being. It also reduces the duration and intensity of those infamous hot flashes. In a recent Swedish study, researchers found that postmenopausal women who exercised were able to handle menopause without Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT); in fact, some of them did not experience hot flashes at all. Other studies have found similar beneficial results, including mood elevation in pre-, peri-, and postmenopausal women. Indeed, studies have shown that regular physical activity benefits not only women going through natural menopause but also those on HRT.

On the other hand, being sedentary as you approach menopause opens you up to a host of potential problems. Sedentary women are far more prone to heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, and obesity; they’re also more likely to suffer stiffness and chronic back pain, irregularity, poor circulation, shortness of breath, weak muscles, depression, and sleep disturbances. Walking, jogging, dancing, swimming, biking and other aerobic activities help circumvent these problems. What’s more, studies have shown that women engaging in aerobic activity or strength training have reduced mortality from cancer.

Being active will also help you keep osteoporosis at bay—thus lowering the risk of bone fractures in your later years—since bones diminish in size and strength if you’re inactive. Because exercise stimulates the cells that help generate new bone tissue, bone mass lost through disuse can be re-built with weight-bearing activity. In fact, even postmenopausal women can help preserve bone mass in their spine with regular exercise.

Physical activity also raises the level of endorphins in the blood, enhancing your mood and allowing you to respond positively in the face of stress. Partly the result of estrogen in a woman’s body, these “feel-good” biochemicals also help regulate body temperature—which in turn can diminish the frequency and intensity of hot flashes. In one study of postmenopausal women who were physically active, severe hot flashes and night sweats were only half as common.

Last, but certainly not least, regular exercise may allow you to maintain better mental agility by increasing the amount of oxygen delivered to the brain. A study comparing older women who were sedentary with older women who exercised regularly for four months, found that the active group processed information faster when tested. In addition, exercise may slow down the loss of dopamine, a neurotransmitter which helps prevent shaking and stiffness that come with old age.

What type of exercise routine should you plan if you’re gearing up for (or going through) menopause? Generally there are three components to a healthy routine: appropriate stretching exercises to improve and maintain flexibility, resistance training to delay loss of bone and muscle tissue, and aerobic activity that will strengthen your overall health and help you maintain a sensible weight.

The bottom line is that whether you crave solitude and independence on an early morning walk or an exercise class that’s always a social occasion, you’ll be much better prepared to soar through menopause if you’re taking care of the body you’re in. You may still have those flashes— but they may be warm rather than hot, and a lot easier to endure!

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Overcome Life’s Little Annoyances

By: Steve Calechman

Behold, if you will, the tragedy that is split pants.

There you are, cruising through another perfectly fabulous day—making deals, making money, making women swoon—when you innocently bend over to pick up a pen on the floor. Rrriiiip! Instantly, the conference room falls silent, every eye in the meeting turns your way, and your young, way-too-attractive assistant stifles a girlish giggle.

Day over, Mr. Big Shot? Not if you know how to overcome those split pants—or any other little problem that can turn a man’s day from amazing to appalling in the blink of an eye. And that is where we come in. We made a list of life’s daily annoyances and found simple but ingenious ways to solve every single one of them instantly.

You Split Your Pants at Work

Take them off. Turn them inside out. (Have you closed your office door, Mr. No Pants?) Now staple along the inner seam. There’s extra fabric where the stitching is, so your handiwork won’t be seen and, more important, won’t be felt, says Courtney Kilmartin, a makeup artist and wardrobe stylist in Boston.

You Get a Blister Under a Toenail

Hold a paper clip with tweezers or pliers; heat the end of it with a lighter until it’s red hot and touch the tip to the surface of the nail so it goes through. (Nails don’t have nerves, so there won’t be any pain, you baby.) The blood will come out, relieving the pressure or pain, says Richard Zane, M.D., an emergency room physician at Brigham and Women’s Hospital in Boston. Ah, relief.

You Sit on Gum on the Bus

Ice it. Once the gum hardens, scrape it off with a credit card. If ice doesn’t work, put some peanut butter on the spot and let it sit for 5 minutes—the gum will come off in pieces, says Laura Dellutri, owner of America’s Cleaning Connection in Kansas City, Kansas. Finish up with a damp cloth to pull up the residue. You risk an oil spot, but then, that’s probably preferable to Bazooka.

You Lose a Contact Lens

Put the remaining contact in whichever eye is stronger. It will take over more of the work, says Elliott Myrowitz, O.D., M.P.H., an optometrist at the Wilmer Eye Institute at Johns Hopkins. That should make you less likely to fall down a flight of steps.

You Burn the Roof of Your Mouth

Stop feeling the burn by gargling with a 50-50 mix of water and hydrogen peroxide. It helps dissolve dead tissue, and it’s fizzy—sorry for the technical medical-speak—so it feels good, Dr. Zane says.

You Eat Garlic Before a Meeting

Before you leave the restaurant, go to the bar and dip a lemon twist in a pinch of salt and chew on it, says Peter Kelly, a chef instructor at Johnson & Wales University in Providence, Rhode Island. The lemon oil and salt will help break down the garlic. The tequila’s optional.

You Have Food on Your Tie

If the spot is crusty, scrape off as much as you can with a credit card, Dellutri says. Then dab the stain with your tongue—saliva breaks down the food, as it would if you had actually gotten it into your mouth. For oil or grease stains, sprinkle baby powder on the spot; cover it with several paper towels and put a book on it, says Clare Spiegel, an image consultant in Coral Springs, Florida. The paper towels will absorb the stain.

You Keep Laughing in a Meeting

Breathe deeply from your diaphragm and squeeze a pen with your fingers. The former will help you relax, and both will give you something else to focus on, says Leslie Shapiro, a behavior therapist at the OCD Institute at McLean Hospital in Belmont, Massachusetts. Need something else to think about? Your grandparents making out. You’re welcome.

You Get Ink on Your Shirt

Best tip: Go straight to the dry cleaner. Can’t leave work? Then put a paper towel underneath the fabric and shoot the spot with hair spray (someone in the office will have some). Then wet another paper towel and press it against the ink, Dellutri says. The ink will go into the paper towel that’s underneath.

Your Hair’s Sticking Up in a Spot

Hit the men’s room and dab a little liquid soap on the roots of the flyaway hair, says Leslie Baumann, M.D., director of cosmetic dermatology at the University of Miami school of medicine. It will coat the hair and prevent static electricity—the cause of your problem.

You Can’t Remember His Name

Just say, “I’m sorry, it’s been one of those days. Would you tell me your name again?” says Jacqueline Whitmore, of the Protocol School of Palm Beach. Don’t say you don’t remember—it looks as if you don’t care. You might not; just don’t look that way.

You Forgot Her Birthday

Hop online and make a weekend reservation at a hotel, inn, or B&B, since they’re open 24 hours. (Expedia.com and orbitz.com can help with hotels.) Then make a card that looks like a coupon for the trip, says Paul Joannides, author of Guide to Great Dates. She’ll actually think you’re romantic.

You Overcooked the Pasta

Saute it with some olive oil. It’ll remove excess moisture, Kelly says. You can also throw the pasta in a baking dish, cover it with sauce and some cheese, and nuke it for 5 to 7 minutes, or use the oven for 15 minutes at 350°F.

The Cork Breaks into the Bottle

Pour the wine into a decanter (a glass or ceramic pitcher will do) and the pieces will float and stick to the sides of the original bottle, says Cat Silirie, wine director at No. 9 Park restaurant in Boston. If the cork turns into dust, pour the wine through a coffee filter.

You Can’t Fall Asleep

Make two columns on a pad of paper. On one side write down what’s bothering you, and on the other write down what you’ll do about it, even if it’s “I’ll deal with it tomorrow,” says Edward O’Malley, Ph.D., director of the Sleep Disorders Center at Norwalk Hospital in Connecticut. Now you’ve been productive and gotten the thoughts out of your head. Then go watch a rerun of a sitcom. You’ll be distracted without becoming too engaged.

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Measure Progress Without the Scale

An Arsenal of Tools for Your Motivation

— By Liz Noelcke, Staff Writer  www.sparkpeople.com

Whichever you choose, these emotions are enemies of people trying to lose weight—especially when you feel like you have done everything right. For many trying to shed pounds, the elation from that initial weight loss is brought to a screeching halt when the scale stops moving. But instead of viewing this as a setback, look for other ways to measure your progress besides the scale. After all, good health isn’t always measured in pounds.

Losing weight usually involves a relatively simple calorie equation: burn off more calories with daily activity than you consume through food. So what happens when these numbers indicate progress, but the scale doesn’t? Before the aggravation sets in, consider why this might be the case. If you’ve been hitting the gym on a regular basis, participating in both cardiovascular and strengthening exercises, then chances are good that you have shed some fat. But the scale might not indicate this because you have also been building lean muscle. Since muscle is dense (a small volume of muscle weighs more than the same volume of fat), the scale might not reflect your hard work.

4 Non-Scale Signs of Progress
1. See results by taking a trip to your very own closet. Take out a pair of pants that fit snugly before you began your new, healthy habits. Are you able to ease into them, when before you had to sit (or lie) down and yank them up your legs? This is a sure sign of progress toward a leaner you! What about an old shirt? Is it now a little loose around your waist or arms? Also look for improved muscle definition when you check out your body in the mirror. There are many everyday indicators that you are firming up your body, from how your clothes fit to sitting more comfortably in a booth or small chair.

2. Aside from weight, use other numerical signs of progress. When you first start your program, take measurements of your waist, arms, neck and hips. Even if you are not losing pounds, you very well may be losing inches all over your body as your figure slims down and tones up with muscles. Measuring your body is more reliable than the scale alone. Other numerical indicators include a reduction of blood pressure or cholesterol, heart rate, and body fat percentage.

3. Monitor how a healthy diet and regular exercise affects your energy levels. Not only will you be able to work out for longer intervals of time, but everyday chores will also become easier. Whether cutting the grass or simply walking up the stairs, these behaviors will come effortlessly. Think of all the daily activities you could use more energy for—grocery shopping, house cleaning, playing with your kids, and more. Pretty soon you’ll be training for your first 5K!

4. Lastly, be conscious of how you feel emotionally. You’ve been working hard to reach your goals. Hopefully, the hard work will come with a boost in self-esteem, confidence, and happiness. Are you beginning to feel more comfortable in your own body? Work to build a positive vocabulary to stay motivated.

Just because the scale has stopped moving doesn’t mean that you’ve hit a plateau in reaching your goals. Don’t give up out of frustration—all healthy behaviors are well worth the effort. Whether it’s better sleep at night or more energy throughout the day, start listening to the signs your body gives you that all of your hard work is paying off!

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Jeff’s Story (PBS-Prune Belly Syndrome)

It’s been a second since I have written anything, but now I’ve been trying to gear up for this New Year of 2011.

Jeff and I (I’d call him Jeffrey when I had to get his attention) did not grow up together, but we would act like brothers when we got around each other. He was and will always be my brother in Christ.

Jeff dealt  with PBS (Prune Belly syndrome) all his life.

What is PBS? (Prune Belly Syndrome)

Also known as Eagle-Barrett syndrome, prune belly syndrome is characterized by three main features:

-Anterior abdominal wall musculature (“stomach muscles”) deficient or absent

-Urinary tract anomalies (such as a very large bladder)

The incidence of prune belly syndrome is about 1 in 40,000 births; 95% of cases occur in males. In the past, it was suggested that the abdominal wall was deformed by pressure from a distended bladder due to bladder outlet obstruction in utero. Currently, it is thought that prune belly syndrome is a multisystem disease complex which derives from a primary defect in mesodermal development at about 8 weeks’ gestation.

The major prognostic factor is the degree of dilation of the urinary tract; 20% of patients are stillborn, 30% die of renal failure or urosepsis within the first two years of life, and the remaining 50% have varying degrees of urinary pathology.

The average age of the person with disease lives till the age of 10, Jeff lived till the age of 41. Jeff was a fighter, and was on the road of being A.L.I.VE. Surprisingly, he lived and left us on his birthday.

Jeff was my webmaster for all of the sites and projects we had been working on. Many things were in the works. Jeff I promise you, I’ll continue moving in those directions to make those dreams become a reality.

Opinionated, yet compassionate. Funny, yet loving. I can say that with both our faults and all, we were friends.

A talented writer, sometimes D.J., political analyst, sometime radio D.J., and all around Internet guru… you were my go to guy.

With your famous tag line that you would sign off in your articles “ If I don’t see you down here, I hope to see you up there”… Till me meet again my friend, till we meet again.

J’ean

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