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We become what we THINK about most of the time

We become what we THINK about most of the time

by Elliot Hulse of Hulsestrength.com

All men of discernment would agree that… Our outer lives are a mirror reflection of our inner lives; or we become what we THINK about most of the time.

This fact has been repeated by men of wisdom for countless generations.  Jesus constantly scolded his students reciting, “Oh ye of little faith!”, every time they considered outer appearances and circumstances rather than their (and our) divine capacity to see God’s reality broadcast live directly into our very cells of existence via the most complex satellite dish ever created… The Brain.

Before I describe my position on brain conditioning and mental reprogramming for the purpose of fulfilling our TRUE life’s potential and bringing our Ideal into full existence, I will relay my convictions and position on the ever debatable topic of, God and The Station of Man.

What Is God and Who Are We?

God is Omnipresent, meaning that He is everywhere at once… not limited by time or space.   From the tiniest, most microscopic electron to the largest most magnificent and complex galaxies in the universe, EVERYTHING is infused with the esoteric power which I am referring to as God.

Because I am referring to this entity as “God” does not meant I am attached to names or forms any more than a nursing baby refers to her source of life as “Mama”or “Baba” (I’ve got a 1 year old at home).  If the name Mommy was preferred over Mama, it would have zero effect on the entity that gives life… it still exists and is not only the Creator but the Sustainer of vitality for the baby.   Call It what you will, but understand that our existence is intrinsically tied to It… It is us and we are It.

To further elaborate, as ridiculous as it would be for a fish to deny the existence of water would be for man to deny the existence of God.  Fish can not SEE the water, in fact there would be very little reason for fish to consider the existence of water, since for most of its life the water is in them and all around the fish.  It’s the life giver, sustainer and provider of life for the fish.  The only way the fish might know that water exists is if he is removed from it.

Because the entity which I describe as God is “closer to us than our life vein.”, it is very easy to take it for granted.  But the fact is that we are surrounded by God in the same fashion that the fish is surrounded by water, and we are constantly communicating with our Source and He is constantly responding (whether we’re satisfied with the response or not).  He knows what we need and want even before we can verbalize it.

To observe God and study his pattens, or to immerse yourself in the reading and research of “Wisdom Literature”, as can be found in several ancient texts including The Bible, will give you a better understanding of the Principles and Laws that govern our lives and the universe.

This, in my opinion is the most essential of all studies we can undertake.  As Albert Einstein propounded, “I want to know the mind of God, everything else it just details”, it is clear that this is the SCIENCE of life.  (everything else is just details)

As for “The Station Of Man”… well, we’re pretty cool! — You see, unlike the plants and animals who are governed by instinct and have a genetic blueprint for the pattern of their lives, we can choose. As we are “made in the likeness and image of God”, we are not only Creatures… we are Creators.  Our capacity to choose and create is bestowed by the direct communication with God that we have been granted through the spirit and into our bodies via The Brain (and nervous system).

The brain acts as a switching station that translates communication received from God and the spirit world, as well as a means of relaying our wishes and desires back to God and the spirit world. We benefit from listening to God because He wrote all of the rules to this game we are playing called Life.  When we listen to God, it’s like having the creator of the game and a coach that wants to see you win, all wrapped up in one, sitting by your side and constantly giving you tips and course corrections.

How do you know when your Cosmic Coach is talking to you?  — You FEEL it in your body!

How To Hear God Talking To You

Our nervous system and hormones shift to produce a contortion or feeling in our body that is consistent with the message being received from the spirit.  This explains why some people feel neck pain or clench their jaw when they experience repressive stress… the nerve bundle, called a vortex, that projects from the spinal chord into the neck, shoulders, and jaw is connected to an area in the brain or nervous system that is associated with creative communication and expression.

Your body has several of these “vortexes” and each acts as a messenger to the body with communication from your spirit or God,  each one associated with a particular feeling or emotion.  Another example is low back pain; the nerve vortex located in the low back and legs are associated with feelings of safety and security.  When our safety is challenged (which it is every day via fear mongering expressed on the TV and media) this nerve bundle will TELL you by restricting the positive and vital energies to that area… creating back pain that not even your surgeon can explain.

The most obvious “holler” that God shouts in our direction is that of Depression.  We all feel depressed at times and this is normal and natural.  But sustained depression in most cases can be traced back to one of 2 things that God is trying to relay to us.  First, consider that you may NOT be doing a thing that you know you should be doing –OR– you may be DOING a thing that you feel you shouldn’t be doing.  Examples of these could be anything from telling a friend the truth about his new girlfriend, to continuing in a job that you hate.

It is though “feeling” or intuition that God talks to us… not with some deep voice projected over a cosmic loud speaker when you are down on your knees reciting some sad, pathetic prayer.  The problem is that most of us have been numbed from these “feelings” due to: ignoring them for so long that they’ve grown faint, and being “high” on pain pills, SSRI medication, alcohol, drugs and caffeine.   Our communication systems are JAMMED!

The wonderful thing is that we can ALWAYS choose to become more receptive to the voice of God, and when we do we’ll once again have the creator of the game and coach that wants you to win guiding your every step.

How Do We Talk To God?

Whether you know it or not, you are constantly giving God feedback and demands via your thoughts.  One of the responsibilities that comes with our ability to choose is that God is pretty neural about your decisions.  He gives you warnings and advice about how to proceed in different circumstances but once you have launched a particular action (and thoughts are action) the steadfast rules will always apply.

Just like if you jump out of the 12th story window of an office building the LAW of gravity dictates that you WILL hit the ground… and hard!  — the law of “Sowing & Reaping” dictates that whatever you give, you will receive in equal fashion.  The only difference is that the law of gravity is immediate and obvious and the law of Sowing and Reaping (or The Law of Attraction) takes time to manifest… but, manifest it will!

So, if we are constantly communicating with God via thoughts the we SOW and he is ALWAYS prepared to answer, wouldn’t make sense that we should only THINK thoughts that are consistent with what we believe to be right and good?  Why then would we CHOOSE to focus our thoughts on fear, anxiety, doom and lack?

The answer is that we have been CONDITIONED to focus on fear.  If you pay attention to the Outer World (popular culture and media) you will be bombarded with messages convincing you that ” you don’t have enough”, “things are bad and only going to get worse”, “you should be worried for your children”, “you should be scared about the economy”, “you need to be afraid for your health.”

Fear is a powerful control mechanism, and world leaders, governments and marketers understand this.  The cry, “Something MUST be done about this!” is music to the ears of those who seek to control you.  Just look at all of the personal rights and liberties that were silently stripped from us post 9/11.  We (Americans) were scared and “something had to be done!”… and things aren’t much different now that “something must be done about the economy”.

We live in a fear-based world that is trying to control us with fear.  This is why it is ever so important to GUARD YOUR MENTAL INTEGRITY!  The first step in eliminating fearful and demeaning thought is to eliminate its source, and for most of us it means turning off the TV and stop talking with negative people.

If you don’t guard your mind from allowing those negative thoughts into your consciousness then you WILL be SOWING the very seeds of your deepest fears… and the God who has given us choices and responsibility will respond  by giving your EXACTLY what you are asking him for.

The next step is to consciously and purposefully plant positive seeds in your mental garden.  This is done in the from of Prayer, Mediation, Affirmation and Visualization.

As I’ve run out of mental gas — I will continue next time with the exact methods that I use to Guard My Mind and the consciously plant positive seeds so as to communicate and receive from God everything that I know to be right and good.

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10 Lies Every Parent Should Tell

(because the truth doesn’t always produce a positive outcome)

By Mike Zimmerman

1 “The tooth fairy called. She said the way you’re behaving, you might as well keep the tooth.” Parents threaten consequences all the time, but it helps to have a strong third party on call to bring perspective. From Halloween on, throw all your disciplinary needs onto Santa’s lap.

2 “Monsters like to eat dust bunnies. I bet you’re going to get lots of monsters in this room.” Call it a cleanliness incentive plan.

3 “Mommy and Daddy aren’t fighting; we’re rearranging the kitchen.” Kids might not buy this one, but in our desire to be right, we jump into fights even if it means exposing our kids to adult conflicts. Need to scream? Get ’em out of the house first.

4 “Mommy and Daddy aren’t fighting; we’re playing leapfrog. On the bed. Without our clothes.” In case the makeup sex gets out of hand.

5 “Reading books will make you a millionaire.” In today’s screen-dominated world, kids must grow up knowing that books, not blogs, will unlock the secrets of their universe.

6 “Don’t worry, sweetie, that can’t happen here.” Um, sure it can. Murder, terrorism, earthquakes—they can strike anytime, anywhere. But parents must be kiddie Pepto-Bismol: Coat them, soothe them, relieve them.

7 “I know everything.” Before teachers, coaches, and the kid down the street get their shot, parents must be a child’s go-to encyclopedia for all of life’s questions. The important thing is that your children, not you, believe it.

8 “That guy is homeless because he didn’t eat his vegetables.” If you really stretch it, there’s science to back this up, given the importance of nutrition to brain health. More important, this lie teaches cause and effect, and gives your child the power to determine his destiny.

9 “I’m not afraid.” Your smile is their Kevlar vest, your hug proof that everything will in fact be OK, no matter how bleak reality might be.

10 “This is Mommy’s special juice, and it’s poison to children.” Happy hour is sacred ground, folks.

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The Princess Diatribes

Use these eight expert-approved strategies to outsmart the marketers and nurture an engaging, resourceful, creative, curious, and considerate child.

by Paul Scott

Boost Your Kids’ Test Scores and Physical Health
Most doctors recommend no screen time for kids under 2 years old, and no more than two hours a day for everyone older. This includes computers, video games, and DVDs. But most parents inadvertently undercut this recommendation by putting TVs in their children’s bedrooms. Kids between 1 and 14 years whose bedrooms are TV-free have lower rates of obesity, score higher on standardized tests, go to sleep at least half an hour earlier each night, and fall asleep easier, according to research. “The best place for a TV and a computer is in a space shared by the whole family,” says Susan Linn, EdD, a psychiatry professor at Harvard Medical School.

Build Immunity to Consumer Culture
Science has demonstrated a link between increased exposure to ads and increased rates of children consuming high-calorie foods, abusing alcohol, and smoking. “You can work with your child from the age of 4 or 5 to build up resilience to consumer culture,” says Tim Kasser, PhD, a psychology professor at Knox College in Illinois and a father of two boys, ages 9 and 11. When his family watches TV, Kasser mutes the commercials while his sons make up their own dialogue. “Now if you ask my children what an ad is, they will reply, ‘They want your money!’ ” he says.

Inspire Your Kids to Be More Active
Making a contract with your 8- to 12-year-old child to watch less television will make him or her more active, according to a study at the University at Buffalo. “Give your kids points for spending time outside,” says Leslie Sim, PhD, a child and adolescent psychologist at the Mayo Clinic. “Then let them exchange those points for special activities with Mom or Dad. Make the reward whatever is going to be meaningful to the child.”

Be a Player
Brain development research shows that infants learn best through human interaction, manipulation of their physical environment, and open-ended, creative play, says Michael Rich, MD, PhD, director of the Center on Media and Child Health at Children’s Hospital in Boston. Yet a host of “educational” videos and shows have been created for babies and toddlers. “Time in front of a screen takes away from more developmentally optimal activities,” says Dr. Rich. Sim offers these simple tips to enhance play: Don’t instruct, don’t question, do praise, do imitate, and be enthusiastic and verbal in how you describe the child’s play. In fact, fathers have a greater effect than mothers on their children’s language development in families with two working parents, according to a study in the Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology.

Bond at the Dinner Table
Eating in front of the TV is associated with increased time spent watching TV, according to a University of Washington study. On the other hand, family meals are associated with smarter, healthier kids, says William Doherty, PhD, a professor of family social science at the University of Minnesota. To make family meals work, Doherty recommends the following: Involve kids in the preparation and cleanup, start and finish meals at the same time, keep the TV off, don’t badger the kids about finishing their peas, and talk about topics the kids feel good about.

Show the Love
The temptation is strong to give your children another hour of Nickelodeon or the latest Transformers model. Give them your time instead. “This is a particular problem for fathers,” says Joe Kelly, fathering author and anti-children’s marketing advocate, “because we are told that our primary role is as a provider, and we have a narrow definition of providing: money and stuff.” Follow your children’s lead and show them you’re interested in what they want to do. Studies show that kids who receive more one-on-one attention grow up more secure.

Free Your Child’s Inner Hemingway
At age 5, kids prefer timeless toys such as generic dolls, stuffed animals, and cars, yet only two years later, these preferences are replaced with brands such as Dora and SpongeBob, according to the child marketing research group KidSay. Licensed characters stifle the imagination and increase materialism, say child development experts such as Linn, who recommends buying only unlicensed products. “Inundating children with branded stuff deprives them of opportunities to create imaginary worlds and to develop a sense of self.”

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5 Secret Mind Tricks to Avoid Giving Up

5 Secret Mind Tricks to Avoid Giving Up

Stefan Pinto’s Lists

Our mind is capa­ble of inc­re­di­ble awa­re­ness, thought and expe­rien­ces. But, in an attempt to pro­tect us, a spurt of base­less rumi­na­tions can easily and quickly deceive. Our brain will try and shut down our wor­kouts by con­vin­cing us that we must “stop” or “quit” as it thinks you will get hurt and or fail–regardless of what we want. Avoid “thin­king” too much when wor­king out and make the choice to engage your­self in the moment.

  1. Stay in the pre­sent: to stay focu­sed on our goal, you must be in the now–the pre­sent. In order for your inten­tion to be rea­li­zed you must pay atten­tion and become aware of where you are. “When action is per­for­med in the pre­sent moment of awa­re­ness, it is most effec­tive” (Cho­pra). The past and the future are either memory or ima­gi­na­tion res­pec­ti­vely and only the pre­sent is real. The pre­sent simply “is” and it is filled with pos­si­bi­lity. And if you main­tain your atten­tion here, in the pre­sent, without wave­ring into ima­gi­nary “what if” sce­na­rios or worse, with­dra­wing into past reco­llec­tion of fai­lu­res, you can focus on your goal ins­tead of obstacles.
  2. Keep going: your brain is telling you that you can’t run the last lap or one slice won’t do much harm. Trick your­self and con­vince your brain that you will only do half the lap and then go for the whole lap or if die­ting, cut the slice into one bite sized por­tion and leave the rest (war­ning: this only works if you actually use uten­sils. Biting off a piece will be a punishing test of will power).
  3. Stand tall: don’t look down, hold your head up. By lite­rally kee­ping your head up, you will become more aware of your surroun­dings, your pre­sence, the­reby sen­ding strong sig­nals to the brain, rein­for­cing your inten­tion. Ima­gine you are being “pulled” up by a strong mag­net (towards your goal, if you wish). Science aside, mom is always right, “hold your head up.”
  4. Breathe. Relax: Don’t hold onto ten­sion in your jaw and mouth. Other­wise, you are focu­sing on the per­cei­ved pain and com­ple­ting the task. Breathing and rela­xing keeps you in “the zone.” When your jaw is rela­xed, your lips will be sligh­ted par­ted, and the ten­sion will be trans­fe­rred to where you need it the most.
  5. Have fun: we pre­fer to surround our­sel­ves with peo­ple that are fun. But often, we for­get about our­sel­ves. We spend most of our times with our­sel­ves, our minds. We should be fun, too. If you enjoy the cha­llenge, it will help you to per­form. There is oppor­tu­nity in adver­sity and if you learn to make lemo­nade from lemons, your challenges–and life–will become that much more enjoyable.

If you want to be suc­cess­ful, you need to change the way you think and simply let go. “Relin­quish your attach­ment to the out­come. This means giving up your rigid attach­ment to a spe­ci­fic result and living in the wis­dom of uncer­tainty. It means enjo­ying every moment in the jour­ney of your life, even if you don’t know the out­come” (more Chopra).

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The Principles of Self-Management Part One

The Principles of Self-Management Part One
Posted by Brian Tracy on May 21, 2010

The starting point of maturity is the realization that “No one is coming to the rescue.” Everything you are or ever will be is entirely up to you.

This life is not a rehearsal for anything else. This is the real thing. The game is on. Time is passing quickly, and all of your decisions and indecisions, your actions and inactions, have added up to create the life you’re living at this very minute. If you want things to be different in the future, you’ll have to make things different in the present. You’ll have to take complete charge of yourself and your life and make things change, because they won’t change by themselves.

Self-management is really personal management, time management, life management. It’s putting your hands firmly on the steering wheel of your life and then taking yourself in your chosen direction. Remember the old Confucian saying, “If you don’t change the road you’re traveling on, you’ll probably end up where you’re going.” Every successful man or woman in America made, at one time or another, a firm decision about where he or she wanted to go and then took deliberate steps to get there. And you can do this for yourself as well.
One of the most useful ideas I ever learned was to view myself as a “bundle of resources.” You can benefit from this idea by standing back and looking at yourself in terms of what you are, instead of what you do. We tend to define ourselves in terms of our work, in terms of what we’re spending most of our time doing at the present moment. When we meet someone, even at a bus stop, we describe ourselves in terms of our jobs.

We say things such as “I’m a salesperson,” “I’m a manager,” or “I work in such-and-such a business doing such-and-such a job.” Since we tend to become what we think about, the more we describe ourselves to others as being what we do, the more we think of ourselves as what we do. Perhaps this is why people who are fired or laid off go through a period of shock and emotional turmoil. it’s as though they’ve been cut off from their identities. You may have had that experience.

The fact is that you’re not what you do. Instead, you’re a bundle of resources. You have the combination of ingredients that makes you a unique and remarkable human being, different from anyone else who ever has lived or who ever will live. You’ve undergone a wide variety of experiences, both positive and negative. You’ve had a formal education, and you’ve learned from the various jobs and activities that you’ve engaged in. You have a unique intelligence, much of which isn’t yet developed to the full. You have skills that you’ve acquired through hard work, discipline and practice.

You have abilities that you were born with, which make it easy for you to do certain jobs and to accomplish certain tasks. You have energy and ambition and goals and opportunities. You have a philosophy of life, however developed it is, and you have attitudes and perspectives that make you extraordinary. The federal government has identified more than 22,000 different job categories; when you put all your skills together, you’re probably capable of excelling at hundreds of jobs, doing different things in different organizations, businesses and industries.

As the psychologist Abraham Maslow once wrote, “The story of the human race is the story of men and women selling themselves short.” The average person tends to settle for far less than he’s capable of and then wonders why he’s so dissatisfied and frustrated with his life.

The fact is that you have an inborn drive toward the realization of your full capacity. There’s a force within you that makes you restless and discontent, and that drives you onward and upward toward the achievement of your dreams and aspirations. Many people attempt to deaden that ambition by drinking too much alcohol, watching too much television, socializing too much and even resorting to drugs and dangerous activities. But it will not be denied. You have been put in this world to do something wonderful with your life. You have a unique destiny, a special purpose.

And the starting point for realizing that purpose is self-management. It is taking full control over yourself and everything that you are doing so that you are moving progressively toward the realization of a worthy ideal, so that you are firmly on the road toward becoming everything you are capable of becoming.

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